I was compelled to make this song/video after hearing Miley Cyrus's new tune: Used to Be Young.
I took the song personally since I was one of the people who called her out. (not that she ever saw me or my video but this is my quantum world here so roll with it)
I love the tune but I was triggered by it. While I have long grown past it and even made the video private for the last several years....I have relisted it and updated the description below.
In the meantime here is the new video. Watch it then keep reading to follow the story.
I made the video NO SECOND CHANCES below, many years ago, with all my opinions, based on what was going on at the time..... and all of these ladies have since, grown up. As have I. You will have to watch my old video No Second Chances to understand where I am coming from here. Much like my art, things are layered, hidden right here in plain sight. You must watch to the end to get to the punch line and eventually, the point.
Video description for No Second Chances with update I appreciate where they are today, better places all of them. And I love Miley's new tunes, but in response to her latest deflection and lack of understanding or, empathy for the little man's reality (USED TO BE YOUNG), I do still hold the opinion that there were better ways for all of them to use their mega platforms. And she was young, I don't blame her. Whomever was handling or even just advising Miley at the time, however, would have known the various images would go viral, they likely expected it and were excited for it, maybe even hoped for it. But as a Mom of a Hannah fan at the time, it was such a cheap grab and also tone deaf. Because at the time, the internet was fresh, and children were being introduced to it, and it was heartbreaking to see so many young girls were being slut shamed and bullied for THEIR bad decisions, some to the point of suicide..... meanwhile their heroines were being celebrated right in the supermarket aisle on the tabloids sitting right at eye level near the candy in almost every grocery store. The images of starlets in my video above were not only pulled directly from pictures in the tabloids, many of them they made the talk shows, news and newspapers. So for kids and fans all over the country who loved their heroines and sometimes copied them? Those kids didn't have a big saftey net protecting them from "their" stupid young decisions. No, the world didn't celebrate them, in fact some of those kids are still dead.)